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Finding Good When Discouragement Tries To Steal Your Joy

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Finding Good When Discouragement
Tries To Steal Your Joy

Even when the sky is dark, keep your eyes on the light God has placed in your hands. (3)

Some blog posts are easy to write.

This one wasn't.

One of the hardest things I've learned over the past year is that discouragement doesn't always come from strangers. Sometimes it comes from words that stay with you long after they've been spoken.

I've shared before that I use AI as one of the tools in my creative journey. I write my own stories. I write my own blog posts. I write my own song lyrics. My heart, my experiences, my faith, and my message are my own.

But when I began using AI to help create illustrations for my stories and demo versions of my songs, I heard things like:

"You're taking jobs away from artists."

"You're taking work away from musicians and singers."

I wish I could tell you those words didn't affect me.

They did.

More than I wanted to admit.

Instead of feeling excited to create, I began questioning everything I was doing.

Was I doing something wrong?

Was I taking something that belonged to someone else?

Was I disappointing God?

Those questions became so heavy that, little by little, I stopped moving forward.

I became frozen.

The hardest part is that my heart has never been to replace anyone.

In fact, it is the complete opposite.

I think it is wonderful when people can hire illustrators, musicians, singers, editors, publishers, and designers. Those creative gifts are valuable and deserve to be celebrated.

I cannot afford to hire a team.

So I use the tools I have available.

Not because I don't value people.

Not because I don't appreciate the incredible talents of others.

But because I have a message I believe God has placed on my heart, and I don't want a lack of resources to stop me from sharing encouragement, hope, and faith with someone who may need it.

One day, I would love to collaborate with musicians and singers. The songs I've written were never meant to stay as AI demos forever. My hope has always been that talented people would come alongside me and help bring those songs to life.

If those songs ever earn money, I don't want to keep it all for myself. I want to share the blessing with the people who help me create them.

That is my heart.

Recently, something occurred to me.

Technology has changed creativity for generations.

Authors self-publish books.

Musicians record in home studios.

Small business owners design their own flyers and social media graphics.

People create videos, edit photos, and produce content with tools that didn't exist years ago.

Every generation has embraced new ways to create.

So perhaps the better question isn't, "What tool are you using?"

Perhaps the better question is:

"What is in your heart?"

Are we creating with honesty?

Are we treating others with respect?

Are we using our gifts to encourage rather than harm?

Those are the questions I want to ask myself.

As Christians, I believe we are called to speak the truth in love. That means we can have different opinions without forgetting kindness. It also means we should be careful that our words don't discourage someone who is sincerely trying to use the gifts God has given them.

"Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen."
Ephesians 4:29 

This verse doesn't mean we can't disagree.

It reminds me that how we speak matters.

Our words can build someone up, or they can quietly convince someone to stop trying.

I want my words and my life to build people up.

My mission has never changed.

Find Good in Everything. Every Day. In Everyone. In Every Situation.

Honestly, it has been difficult to find the good in this season.

But maybe this is the good.

The criticism forced me to examine my heart.

It reminded me that my purpose isn't to win arguments.

My purpose is to encourage people.

It reminded me that kindness matters, especially when we disagree.

And it reminded me that fear can quietly steal our joy if we allow it.

So today, I'm choosing to keep creating.

Not because everyone will understand.

Not because everyone will agree.

But because I believe God gives each of us gifts, and I don't want fear to bury the ones He has entrusted to me.

"Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up."
Galatians 6:9 

If you're reading this and you've been discouraged by someone's words, I hope you remember this:

Sometimes people see your tools before they see your heart.

God sees your heart first.

So keep creating.

Keep encouraging.

Keep shining your light.

And keep looking for the good.

Because someone, somewhere, may need the hope that only you can share.

Today, I am choosing kindness over criticism.

Grace over judgment.

Hope over fear.

And I am choosing to keep looking for the good.

Every day.

In everyone.

In every situation.

Because that is still the message God has placed on my heart.

God Bless
xoxo

RoseMary

Faith vs Fairytale

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Faith vs Fairytale

Faith vs Fairy Tale (1)

I try to do the right thing. I try to live the way God calls me to live. And many times, I am overlooked, misunderstood, or quietly dismissed.

I've been told my outlook is unrealistic. That finding good in everything is ridiculous. That the world isn't a fairy tale.

I agree.

The world isn't a fairy tale.

It's broken.

People are hurting, and some days believing in goodness feels heavy, not easy.

But my faith has never been about pretending pain doesn't exist.

As a Christian, I believe God gave us free will. That means people can make loving choices or devastating ones. I don't believe God causes evil. I believe it grieves Him.

I believe blaming God is often easier than sitting with heartbreak we don't understand.

The Bible never promises us a painless life.

Jesus said, "In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world." (John 16:33)

There are days I get discouraged. Days I wonder if what I'm doing even matters. Days when staying positive feels exhausting, not inspiring.

I don't always feel strong.

But I still choose faith.

Finding good in everything isn't denial. It's trusting God when answers don't come.

It's believing He is still working even when I can't see how.

 

That verse doesn't say all things are good. It says God works in all things.

Sometimes the good is growth. Sometimes it's compassion. Sometimes it's learning to trust Him more deeply when life doesn't make sense.

I look for the good because I have seen God redeem moments that felt meaningless at the time.

I look for the good because choosing hope keeps my heart soft in a world that often grows hard.

And yes, sometimes it hurts to believe so deeply in a world that doesn't.

 

Galatians 6:9 reminds me, "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up."

So I won't give up.

I will keep choosing what is right.

I will keep believing God is faithful.

I will keep finding good in everything—not because life is perfect, but because God is present.

When I say "Find Good in Everything," I'm not minimizing pain. I am refusing to let pain define the whole story.

I'm choosing hope when despair would be easier.

I'm trusting that God can redeem what He did not create.

Jesus Himself never denied suffering. He stepped into it. He wept. He was misunderstood. He was overlooked. He was criticized for loving too much and caring too deeply.

And yet, He continued. He never stopped bringing light into the darkness.

Finding good in everything does not mean every situation is good. It means I trust God to work through every situation.

And if that looks foolish to some, I'm okay with that, because hope always looks foolish until it changes someone's life.

Faith is choosing to trust God enough to build when the sky is dark, the ground is hard, and others say you're living in a fairy tale.

Storms don't destroy faith. They reveal what faith is built on.

This isn't a fairy tale.

It's faith.

Imperfect, honest, and true.

Romans 8:28 says, "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose."

God Bless
xoxo

RoseMary

Let Go & Let God

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Let God & Let God

Let Go & Let God

Let go of the bitter - Let God make it better

Let go of the unforgiveness - Let God grant forgiveness

Let go of the hate - Let God supply love

Let go of the anger - Let God bring peace

Let go of the fear - Let God strengthen your faith

Let go of the worry - Let God carry you through

Let go means to release it to surrender it. Let GOD means to place it in HIS HANDS and trust HIM with it.

Let HIM carry the burden. Let HIM heal the hurt. Let HIM take what is heavy and do what only HE can do.

"Cast ALL your anxiety on HIM because HE cares for you."

1 Peter 5:7

Let go of the pain, the hurt, the anger, and the worry ... but NEVER let go of GOD.

God Bless
xoxo

RoseMary

Finding Good In Everything – Even After Trauma

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Finding Good In Everything

Even After Trauma

Dancing Through The Storm

For most of my life, I carried stories that felt heavy.
Stories of childhood trauma.
Stories of violence.
Stories of broken relationships.
Stories of loss and regret.

There were moments when I believed these stories defined me.
I believed I was damaged.
I believed I was a bad mother.
I believed my past disqualified me from my dreams.

I remember looking in the mirror…
and not liking the woman looking back at me.

Not because of what I saw on the outside…
but because of what I believed on the inside.

I saw someone who had made mistakes.
Someone who had failed.
Someone who wasn’t enough.

Maybe you’ve had a moment like that too—
standing in front of a mirror,
being your own worst critic.

But what I didn’t realize then…
was that I wasn’t seeing myself the way God saw me.

Because God didn’t see a broken woman.
He saw someone still standing.
Still trying.
Still worthy of love.

And if you’ve ever felt that way, please hear this:
You are not who your mistakes say you are.
You are who God says you are.

Now, at 68 years old, I refuse to accept the old narrative.

I’ve learned something powerful:
Pain and beauty can exist in the same place.

I grew up in an environment where there was trauma…
But there was also talent.
There was brokenness… but also gifts.
There was fear… but also faith.

My father had hands that could hurt,
but those same hands created beautiful art, elegant handwriting, and music.
My mother carried deep wounds,
yet she was a dancer, a pianist, a singer, a seamstress, and a wonderful cook.

I inherited both pain and beauty.

And I had to make a choice.

I chose to hold on to the beauty.

The beauty of life.
The beauty that still existed, even in broken places.

As a child, survival meant learning to read people.
But I didn’t learn to hate them.

I learned to ask,
“What happened to them to make them this way?”

That question changed my heart.

Instead of building walls of bitterness,
I began building bridges of understanding.

That doesn’t mean I excuse harmful behavior.
It means I refuse to let hatred take root in my soul.

Throughout my life, I experienced abuse, broken trust, family pain, loss, and even suicide.
There were seasons when anxiety overwhelmed me—
paralyzing me to the point where I wouldn’t even leave the house.

And even today, anxiety still tries to return.

But now… I pray.
And I sing.

Prayer calms my soul.
Singing reminds me that I am alive.
Singing reminds me that hope still exists.

Praying and singing connect me to my faith—
and to freedom.

Even in my darkest moments, God was there…
even when I didn’t fully recognize it.

My healing came through prayer and song.

I used to believe my worth depended on being perfect.
I remember getting an A- in choir instead of an A and being told I wasn’t good enough.

I made mistakes as a mother, and I labeled myself “terrible.”
When relationships failed, I blamed my identity.

But I have learned something that changed everything:

Mistakes don’t define me.
Trauma doesn’t define me.
Other people’s brokenness doesn’t define me.

And it doesn’t define you either.

What I’ve walked through didn’t break me—it led me.
It led me to create, share, speak, and believe.

This journey is what led me to believe…
to begin creating pieces of jewelry,
to write a heartfelt quote,
to start a blog—
and now, a YouTube channel.

My pain became my purpose.

All because God placed this truth in my heart—
a truth I could not ignore,
a truth I could not keep to myself.

And maybe your story is doing the same for you…
Maybe it’s shaping something inside you that you don’t even see yet.

Maybe the very things that tried to break you
are the very things that are building something within you.

And the message God placed on my heart
is the same one I share with you:

Find Good in Everything, Everyday, in Everyone, in Every Situation.

Today, I choose to see the good in people.
I choose to understand before I judge.
I choose compassion over criticism.
I choose curiosity over hatred.

But I also choose boundaries.

Seeing good in others does not mean allowing harm.
Forgiving does not mean forgetting wisdom.
Grace and strength can live together.

I am here today not as a perfect woman,
but as a woman who survived.

I survived chaos.
I survived shame.
I survived abuse.
I survived loss.
I survived guilt.

And I still choose gratitude.

If there is one message I want you to take from my life, it is this:

No matter what you have been through…
Look for the good.
Look for the light.
Look for the gift inside the pain.

Because sometimes the very things that tried to break you
are the very things that shape your purpose.

I am proof that trauma does not have the final word.

Grace does.
God does.

And maybe… your story is not finished yet.

If you are still in the middle of your story, please hear this:

Your past does not define you.
Your pain does not disqualify you.
You are still loved.
You are still chosen.
And God is not finished with you yet.

As I reflect on my life, I recognize that my journey has not only affected me—it has affected others.

There were moments when I failed.
Moments where I chose poorly.
Moments where my actions caused pain.

I have gone to the people I could reach and offered apologies.
Some received them.
Some needed time.
And some relationships remain unresolved.

To anyone who experienced hurt because of my immaturity, my selfishness, my trauma responses, or my fear—
I am truly sorry.

Not to erase the past,
but to acknowledge it
and take responsibility for my part.

I understand that forgiveness is personal.

And whether forgiveness has been granted or not,
I have chosen accountability.
I have chosen growth.

And I will continue to choose it—every day.

So wherever you are in your story…
keep looking for the good.

Because it is there…

Even here.
Even now.

God Bless
xoxo

RoseMary

Faith versus Fairytale Thinking

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Faith Versus Fairytale

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When I say Find Good In Everything, I'm not pretending pain doesn't exist; I'm choosing to believe that pain doesn't get the final word. The world often rewards loudness, not faithfulness. Cynicism, not hope,

Doing the right thing doesn't come with applause, especially as a Christian. Jesus was constantly overlooked, misunderstood, and dismissed.

I'm often told that my outlook is unrealistic. That believing there's good in everything is naive. That the world isn't a fairy tale, they're right about one thing: life is hard. Pain is real. Loss is devastating. Injustice exists, but finding good is not pretending those things don't happen. Finding good in everything is a choice, a faith decision to believe that pain does not get the final word.

As a Christian, I don't believe God causes suffering. I believe we live in a broken world where people make choices,, systems fail, and tragedy happens.

Free will matters. Consequences are real. And sometimes we may never fully understand the "why".

But I believe this: GOD is present in the middle of it. When I say find good in everything, I am not minimizing pain. I am refusing to let the pain define the whole story. I am choosing hope when despair would be easier. I am trusting that GOD can redeem what HE did not create.

JESUS himself never denied suffering. He stepped into it. He wept. He was misunderstood. He was overlooked. He was criticized for loving too much and caring too deeply. And yet, He continued, never stopping to bring light into the darkness.

Finding Good in Everything does not mean every situation is good. It means I trust GOD to work through every situation. And if that looks foolish to some, I'm okay with that because hope always looks foolish- until it changes someone's life.

 

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Dear God,
I will be Joyful in hope, Patient in the storms, and Faithful in prayer. I choose to see beauty and find the good in everything.

I still believe in fairytales, not because life is always easy or perfect, but I know God is the Author of every story. Even when the chapters are hard, the storms come, or the path seems dark, He is writing goodness, hope, and beauty into every chapter. Faith is trusting that His story has purpose, and that in the end, joy and light will prevail.

I choose to believe that with GOD, every story will have a happy ending.

Grounded in Faith

GOD's light will always be there to guide you and keep you safe.

God Bless
xoxo

RoseMary

Finding Good In The Detours

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Finding Good in the Detours

Most mornings, we wake up with a plan. We know where we're going, what we need to do, and how the day should unfold. And then gently, or not so gently, reminds us that we are not fully in control.

Traffic backs up.
The car won't start.
The weather changes.
Plans shift without warning.
Our body doesn't cooperate.

Suddenly, the day looks nothing like we imagined. And honestly, that can be frustrating, causing anxiety, fear, and frustration.

When our plans change, so does our perspective. I've learned that plans don't just change occasionally; they change daily. Sometimes it's something small, sometimes it's something that feels overwhelming. In those moments, it's easy to think Why is this happening? Why today? Why Now? Why Me? It makes me think of Exodus 13:17. This scripture reminds us that altered plans are not new; they are not random.

 

When Pharaoh finally let the people go, God did not lead them along the main road that runs through Philistine territory, even though that was the shortest route to the Promised Land. God said, "If the people are faced with a battle, they might change their minds and return to Egypt."
Exodus 13:17

Find Good in the Detours (1)

God led the Israelites away from the shortest route. Not because He didn't know the way - but because He knew them. He knew what they weren't ready to face yet. So, He lovingly led them on a longer road. Not to delay them. Not to punish them, but to protect them.

 

The Good We Don't Always See

What if the delay is actually love?
What if that interruption was mercy?
What if I needed this road to learn patience?
What if the traffic jam kept us from having an accident?
What if the wrong turn was actually the safe one?
What if the scenic route helped me see things differently, because God knew I needed the view?

Traffic might keep us from having an accident. Illness might force rest we didn't know we needed. A broken car might slow us down at just the right moment. A change of plans might spare us from something heavier than we could handle.

We don't always get answers, but we can choose to always trust God.

Finding Good In Everything (even the detours)

Finding Good in Everything doesn't mean pretending things are easy; it means believing that God is still present, even when the path looks different from what we expected.

We may focus on getting there faster. God focuses on getting us there safely. And sometimes the longer route is the most loving one.

So, when your plans change or get disrupted, and they probably will, take a breath, look for the good, and trust that God sees the full picture, even when you see only the delay.

We often judge a change in plans as an inconvenience when it may actually be God's quiet intervention.

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 God sees what we cannot:
The danger ahead.
The weight we're not yet strong enough to carry.
The timing that would break us instead of building us.

So, God reroutes us:
Not to punish us
Not to frustrate us
But to protect us

God's outcome is greater than our agenda. We focus on efficiency. God focuses on formation. We want the fastest route. God wants the safest and most loving one. Even when our days feel scattered, and unpredictable the final outcome is never chaos in God's Hands. His plans are steady, intentional, and rooted in love. Every delay, detour and interruption fit into a larger purpose that we may only understand much later - if at all.

Trust God on The Detour
The road may look longer than we expected, but the destination has not changed. And along the way, we are being carried, shaped, and protected by a God who loves us.

Sometimes the detour is exactly where the good is waiting.

 

Find Good in the Detours

God Bless
xoxo

RoseMary

You Are Who GOD Made You

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You Are Who GOD Made you

You are Unique

Embrace Who God Made You to Be: Stop Hiding Your Gifts

We all struggle with feeling like we’re not perfect, like we’re doing things wrong, or that we’re not good enough. I know I do. It’s a voice that often speaks louder than my own, especially when I try to create or share something meaningful. Whether I’m writing, speaking, crafting, or simply sharing a project I’m proud of, it feels like that inner critic is always lurking, whispering doubts and fears.

For a long time, I hesitated to promote myself or talk about my work because it felt like bragging. I didn’t want to draw attention to myself. I didn’t want to seem like I was pushing my gifts or talents onto others. And because of that, my projects often go unnoticed, and they don’t sell.

But the truth is, I don’t want to live my life looking backward. I don’t want the voices from my past—voices filled with criticism and judgment—to control my present. The truth is, God is the One who made me, and He gave me the gifts and talents I have. Why am I letting fear hold me back from using them?

The answer is simple: fear. And the truth is, fear does not come from God.

Breaking Free from Fear

The Bible reminds us in 2 Timothy 1:7:

“For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind.”

Fear can be paralyzing. It can stop us from doing what brings us joy, even in the smallest things. For me, one of those things is dressing up and expressing myself through my clothes. I don’t do it to be the center of attention—honestly, I dislike that. I do it because it makes me feel happy. It brings a smile to my face and joy to my heart. But still, I know people may judge me for it. And sometimes, that fear of judgment holds me back.

But joy is not something to apologize for.

The Gift of Uniqueness

God made each of us different. We are all unique, and that includes our gifts, our talents, our style, and the way we express ourselves. What brings life to one person may seem strange or unnecessary to someone else, but that doesn’t make it wrong. In fact, it makes it beautiful. Our creativity, our gifts, and our very being are reflections of the Creator, who formed us with great intention.

I know my gifts are from God because I couldn’t do them on my own. So I have to ask myself: Who is silencing me? And the answer is clear—it’s not God.

Too many of us have been quieted by years of criticism, comparison, judgment, and misunderstanding. That voice of negativity is not from God. Yes, God corrects us when we stray, but He does not belittle us. He convicts us, but He does not humiliate us.

Romans 8:1 tells us:

“There is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”

God's Seal of Protection

People can hurt us with their words and actions, but they cannot break us. God is the one who seals us for protection—His seal is stronger than anything the world can throw at us.

Ephesians 1:13 reminds us:

“When you believed, you were sealed with the promised Holy Spirit.”

And if we do break, He is the only One who can truly restore us, making us whole and beautiful again.

Psalm 23:3 says:

“He restores my soul.”

Don’t Shrink Yourself

We don’t need to shrink ourselves just to make others comfortable. We don’t need to apologize for who we are or the gifts God has given us. Being proud of who God made us to be is not arrogance—it’s gratitude.

When we show up as our true selves, embracing the gifts and talents He has placed within us, we are honoring Him. We are showing the world the beauty of His creation in us.

A Gentle Invitation

If this message resonates with you, I invite you to pause and reflect:

What has God placed in your hands that you’ve been afraid to share?

Maybe it’s a creative talent, a kind word, a gift of encouragement, or something else entirely that you’ve kept hidden because of fear of judgment. You don’t have to be loud or perfect in your expression—just willing. When we step forward in faith, even quietly, we give others permission to do the same.

So, I encourage you to be brave. Be strong. Be unique. Be who God made you to be—confident, grateful, and unashamed. Let your light shine!

Remember, Joshua 1:9 says:

“Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”

God is with you, and He will guide you as you step into the gifts He’s given you. Don’t let fear or doubt hold you back. The world needs your unique light. Let it shine!

You Matter – Even When You Think You Don’t

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You Matter

You Matter

You Matter -

Even When You Don’t Feel Like It

For decades, I believed I didn’t matter — until God whispered otherwise. This is my story of healing, courage, and learning to see myself through God’s eyes.

 

Growing up in a home where I felt invisible and pressured to be perfect, I spent decades believing I didn’t matter. I felt unwanted and unloved — except by a small handful of people. My grandparents were always there for me, loving me unconditionally.

They were deeply religious, and when I became pregnant as an unmarried teenager, I know it hurt them deeply. Yet their love never wavered. They stood by me without judgment.

I was also blessed with two dear high school friends who, more than 50 years later, are still in my life. But even with that support, I spent decades feeling like I didn’t matter.

I had one relationship where I truly felt seen and valued. The rest left me heartbroken. For years, I believed that was my story — until God whispered otherwise.

At 67, I took a leap of faith. I wrote my first children’s picture book and a companion activity book and began designing journals. The confidence wasn’t really there — I had started many creative projects before that seemed to go nowhere.

Then something unexpected happened — I joined Toastmasters.

For someone who had never competed in anything, stepping on stage to speak felt terrifying. But I did it anyway. And to my surprise, I started winning some contests.

One contest, though, stands out vividly. Two people spoke before me — one, a dear friend and excellent speaker; the other, a professional. I was completely intimidated. I knew my speech was good, but nerves got the best of me.

When the results were announced, I was shocked — I had won first place! But moments later, they realized there’d been a mistake. I was actually third.

You guessed it — that old voice whispered, “See? You don’t matter.”

But here’s what I’ve learned: God uses even those moments to remind us that we do matter — not because of awards, but because we show up. We try. We grow.

And that’s what I’ve chosen to keep doing — not to win, but to prove to myself that I can do it.

 

 

Because the truth is, I do matter.
And so do you.

 

God Bless
xoxo

RoseMary

Today

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Today

Make Today The Best Day Of Your Life

We never think today may be my last day but maybe just maybe we need to start living like it. Enjoying it. Being grateful for it.

How often are you keeping track of the "what ifs" "why me's" "I wish I had's"?

You need to keep track of the "I am grateful for" "I am Blessed because" "This is the best day of my life".

Sing your favorite song. Dance, laugh, and love today.

Have you ever thought what if this is my last day on earth?

How would I make it the best day of my life?

Who would I want to spend it with?

Who do I need to forgive?

Who do I need to ask for forgivenss?

What do I need to finish before I leave?

How can I make this the Best Day Of My Life?

Unforgiveness, anxiety, fear, discouragement, anger, and bitterness rob us of seeing and living the beauty of today.

This is the day that

the Lord has made.

I will REJOICE and be GLAD in it.

Psalm 118:24

God Bless
xoxo

RoseMary

Sandpaper Friends

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Sandpaper Friends

Extra Fine
SANDPAPER FRIENDS
One night while I was at my Life Group meeting we were discussing people. No one in particular just people and I realized (because I don’t have the mind to memorize scripture or put things in proper perspective I have to come up with an analogy that will remind me of the verse and the meaning of the verse).
I realized that people are like sandpaper. There are all kinds of sandpaper some are coarse and some are fine. Yes my mind does not work like the average mind I mean look at the way I dress do you think anyone normal person would look like this well that’s another chapter. But again I thought people are like sandpaper.
Some are coarse they do the heavy sanding and stripping they rough up the surface. But this is needed to prepare the surface for the next grit. These are the friends that can be harsh at times, a little rough, they are blunt but many times tell you the truth without sugar coating. Sometimes you need these friends. They should not be mean but they are right to the point with their blunt honesty which we made need to get through our thick heads.
Medium sandpaper smoothes the surface and removes smaller imperfections and marks. We need these friends who can give us constructive feedback.
Fine sandpaper is used for finishing the wood. These friends give us encouragement and help us on our journey.
Very Fine is used between coats of stain or sealer. These are our rah-rah friends who are there to cheer us on.
Extra Fine is used to remove the dust spots or marks between the finishing coats. These are the friends that wipe the tears when we feel overwhelmed or want to give up.
And then there is the super fine this gives the shine. These are the friends who have supported you all the way. They are the total of all the sandpapers put together. They love you no matter what and are always there for you. They help you in every way possible to finish what you have started and be there for you as a forever friend.
So you will meet these sandpaper friends and you will think “What grit of sandpaper are they and where will they fit into my life?” “Why do I like this person and why were they sent here? To annoy me? To help me? To teach me? Yes, they grate on me like coarse sandpaper but then I realized that even the coarse sandpaper has a purpose.

The moral is everything starts off rough and then if we stick to it long enough, use all the sandpapers that are necessary, and work on it hard enough in the end it will all be beautiful, shiny, and smooth. Then we will be able to say it was all worth it.

God Bless
xoxo

RoseMary