“Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me”
I do not know who said this, but I totally disagree. Words are powerful. Words can be so destructive. Words said can never be taken back. Once released they have escaped someone’s mouth but have kept someone else captive.
WORDS HURT. They run deep into our minds and into our hearts. Words are permanent. Words are like a scar. Words will either build someone up or tear them down.
I was told for years that no one would ever want me, that if I could not do something perfectly then I should not do it at all. I was not good enough. Those words entered my life and I allowed them to hold me captive. I allowed them to continue to repeat over and over in my head, and I believed them. I lived my life by those words. WORDS HURT.
When I sit back and reflect on things, I realize that I also have said words that have hurt others and my heart hurts. I know I can never take those words back and apologizing can put a band-aid on the hurt, it will heal on the outside, but the scar will always remain inside.
I try very hard now to live by my life mission goal to” Find Good In Everything” and believe me there are many, many, many times I find it hard to do. One of my favorite verses for this is:
Psalm 19:14 “May the words of my mouth and the thoughts of my heart be pleasing to YOU, O Lord my Rock and my Redeemer”
So, I ask how have words impacted you? How have your words impacted others? Before you speak please remember Words Hurt.